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How to Move a Parent With Dementia to Assisted Living?

One of the most challenging realities families face is watching a parent struggle with dementia. It brings questions about safety, well-being, and ensuring they have the support they need to live comfortably. For many children, finding that balance between care and independence becomes a top priority.

Assisted living and memory care lifestyles offer the personalized support your parent needs while providing them with a vibrant and enriching new chapter of life. Once the decision to move into assisted living is made, that’s when the real work begins. It may not be easy, but it’s an act of love that sets your loved one up for a vibrant life in a place that can adapt to their changing needs.

What’s Special About Assisted Living?

Often, the first step to helping a parent move to assisted living is understanding the “why” of it. Why is assisted living the right choice? It may not even be your loved one who needs convincing. Many children see a parent moving to assisted living as if they’re losing something when, in fact, there is so much to gain!

Assisted living communities are designed to help seniors who can still maintain much of their independence but need occasional support. Sure, it’s a great place to live—but it’s also a supportive environment where daily tasks become easier, exciting activities take center stage, and a team of caregivers is always nearby to lend a helping hand.

Whether it’s cooking, housekeeping, bathing, or even assistance with medications, assisted living allows your loved one to focus on what matters most while staying connected to a community of peers. It’s all about maintaining autonomy and restoring a sense of dignity in a compassionate setting.

However, what about seniors living with dementia? Can they benefit from assisted living, too?

Is Assisted Living the Right Fit for Seniors With Dementia?

For seniors experiencing mild dementia or early cognitive decline, assisted living may be an excellent fit. These lifestyles often have structured routines, specialized programs, and caregivers trained to provide gentle, supportive guidance. This kind of environment can help improve your parents’ day-to-day quality of life by offering stability and a focused approach to their needs.

That being said, dementia is a progressive condition. Over time, symptoms may worsen, leading to new challenges in daily living and potentially creating safety concerns. When this happens, transitioning to a memory care community may be necessary to address their growing needs and support their safety.

An older adult embraces their partner from behind as they gaze into the bright horizon.How Memory Care Makes a Difference

Memory care takes everything wonderful about assisted living and goes a step further. It’s a specialized type of care tailored to meet the unique needs of seniors living with memory loss, dementia, or other types of cognitive decline.

These communities mean your loved one has plenty of support while promoting as much independence as possible. Here are just a few things memory care provides:

  • A safe, structured environment with features like secured entries and exits. 
  • Specialized care and programs tailored to meet the needs of dementia patients, from sensory-based activities to memory-stimulating exercises. 
  • Compassionate and attentive staff who understand the complexities of dementia and provide patience and understanding in every interaction. 

A memory care community is about creating a compassionate and enriching environment where they can thrive while having all their needs met. 

Making the Transition to Assisted Living Smoother

Moving your parent to memory care is an emotional process, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It’s all about planning. Make communication simple and start from a place of knowledge. Know what you’re talking about and seek out resources if you need them. You’re not in this alone. You have a community to help you.

Your parent may resist at first, but with patience and encouragement, you can help them feel more secure about the move. Here are some tips:

  • Share the why: Start by explaining the benefits of memory care. Focus on how this community is uniquely designed to support their needs with safety, comfort, and care. 
  • Include them: Whenever possible, involve your parent in the decision-making process. Tour communities together and consider their input on where they feel most at home. Remember, you’re doing this for them. 
  • Prepare for the move: Once you find their place, help your parent get comfortable by showing them pictures of their new home and introducing them to staff in advance. Setting up their space with familiar items like favorite furniture, family photos, or cherished keepsakes can make it feel more like home. 
  • Keep communication open: Stay in close contact with the community’s staff after the move to ensure your parent is adjusting well and to give you peace of mind. 

Taking these proactive steps can significantly ease anxiety for both you and your loved one during this strange time.

A New Chapter Awaits

Helping your parent move to an assisted living or memory care community represents more than just providing care; it’s an opportunity to transform their daily life into something fulfilling. Our Sommerset Neighborhood team is passionate about building a nurturing environment where safety meets independence and a life well-lived meets new beginnings.

If you’re ready to explore what Sommerset Neighborhood Assisted Living & Memory Care can offer, we invite you to book a tour with us. Experience firsthand the welcoming atmosphere, engaging activities, and exceptional care that make our community feel like home.

Your parent deserves a place where every moment matters. Get in touch today and take the first step toward creating a worry-free future.

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